WAW, and a bisexual open marriage part 2

[lovehurts2]

GB,

25 has some very valid points. R talk is usually a no-no and most likely the WAS will not even listen, as R talks can get awkward and uncomfortable for them.

"AND if you won't let her get what she wants on this huge matter, she says she's done and the marriage is over... (But If you do grant it, isn't the marriage over anyhow?)"

You need to be true to yourself, and ask yourself would you be truly happy if she was allowed to have OM and OW. It would only be a matter of time before you yourself would self destruct. She demands that the M needs to be open or she is out.

Where is the compromise in that?If she took her vows to heart, she should know that your feelings count in this R.And it shouldn't be about only keeping her happy.