I understand what you are saying. I do have a question though. Why is it that we are told to act as if (until we get there for real) we are competent and capable to the MLCer?
My H even referred to me "maintaining my image" in a negative way. It was like he was expecting me to curl up in the fetal position after he left (I did for a bit)and not make it without him. He seemed PO that that didn't happen.
