Well, I haven't posted in a while. Things are pretty much the same. W goes from cold in conversations and email to really outgoing. Last night after seeing a movie she called me at 11pm to tell me about it. What????? Normally she would not call me at that time at night. Called me three time while I was golfing this morning. Just wanted to see how I was doing. Telling me that "I hope you have a wonderful weekend..." She invited me over for dinner last Sunday. Held my hand while we watched a movie called "Somewhere in Time" with Christopher Reeves. Yawn!
I have been in contact with my attorney(very expensive). Moving forward with plans to protect my ass...ets/interests. What to keep "the house." I want my kids to continue to live in the house they were raised in. This decision doesn't make financial sense. The house is way too big (expensive to heat and cool). But it one constant that I provide for my kids though all of this turmoil.
I have gotten to a different place emotionally. I am accepting the fact that the most likely outcome is divore. I have gone to some divorce support groups locally. I have met some nice people. Been doing stuff!! A lot of golf, biking, etc. Which I enjoy.
Oh, I don't know if I have mentioned that she has on numerous occasions mentioned that "it might just happen that we could get remarried if this ends in divorce." That is about the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard. Has anyone else heard such non-sense??????
Me: 53 W: 45 T: 26 M: 23 S: 15 D: 13 Papers filed 1/28/11 WAW moved out 3/29/11 Tentative D date 6/3/11