Talking with friends tonight while at their house for dinner and I was informed that in February STBX told them she and OM/boss were going to buy a house. Apparently he dismissed her comment. Still, it's interesting that she asked be to buy her out of our home at that time. Nothing surprises me anymore, but I still find some things a little odd.
My focus is now on planning for each possible next step in order to protect myself and the kids. Other than that, I continue to feel more detached than ever and that's a very good thing.
It's a long weekend here in Canada. I had to work today, but have 2 days off in a row which is very rare for me. I am going to spend those days working on my lawn, yard and house. That may not be a lot of fun, but things are looking a little rough and I like the sense of accomplishment. Hopefully, the kids and I still have this house for a little over a year. I need to keep it well maintained to keep re-sale value high.
Every now and then I still miss STBX, but as soon as I feel that I remember that she has been in love with another man for years and is now finally living her dream. Then....the missing dies quickly.
