I know I'm one of the people that comes in and tells people that everything will be ok. It's so much harder to listen to yourself saying that and believing it.
Absolutely it is LP. We know that, ultimately, everything WILL be good again, whether or not our R/M reconciles, but it is very, very difficult to believe when you are in the the thick of it.
Hang in there man. You have a very long road to go... the hard road, if you choose it.
And remember your screen name here! LEARNING PATIENCE!
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce