That's the best news I've heard in a long time! I'm not just speaking about the R, but in how you have grown. I could not be more proud if you were my own son. I feel certain that you are going to be fine regardless of the MR. Wow, you have really changed since you first came to the board!
I think going with her on that trip is a wise decision. She needs you by her side for support.....and especially as a protector.
Gosh.......we need PDT's big whistles!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!