IB, I understand how you feel completely and I'm sure the other posters do to. It takes time to heal and w/him bringing the ow around, it's adding salt to the already open wound that is trying to heal. I most certainly wouldn't be around him either, especially if the ow is there as well.
You will heal in your own time and at your own pace. Until that time, you do what is necessary to help you get to that place. If it means not coming in contact w/him, so be it.
Please take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
