Rollercoaster of love

[Denver_2010]

Denver, thanks for the reply. The things that made me sure that it's over:
1) a list on our counter of the things we bought together, made by W
2) spoke with SIL today. W is visiting D in CO (Grand Junction) and is driving back with OM to MI. SD is upset with that and that was the final straw. Pretty much everyone that knows W thinks the sitch is F'ed up. She can deal with that on her own.

I'm just numb right now. Supposed to meat friends for late dinner. MIL asked if I wanted to come over. I think I will for a minute and give her a huge hug. She's like a mom to me.

Thanks everyone for your support and well wishes. We'll see what the future brings...

I understand that numb feeling LP. That is why I'm telling you to hold off on doing or saying anything rash until you have allowed that to pass. Most likely, you are not balance emotionally right now. That is a bad place to make decisions from. Give yourself some time.

As for the list of stuff that your W made ... I made a similar list before my W moved out... when I was telling her that I wanted her to move out. When she dropped the bomb and told me that she was actually going to do it... that list meant nothing.

My point? Your W making that list means nothing. She's a WAW man. If that's the worst of what you have experienced, consider yourself lucky.

I'm not trying to talk you into anything one way or the other LP. But, as others have pointed out to me, you didn't come here and expect this to be easy did you??

Hang in there man.

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Denver