Thanks jb-you always have such positive things to say to me.

I'm just feeling a little down tonight I guess.

But I was doing some thinking about some of the positive things that have happened in the past 3 months:

-my relationship with my boys is a lot better, especially with my S15.
I tell him every day that I love him. Before I leave for work, when I drop him off somewhere, and before I go to bed, and he actually says "Love you too". For any parents of teenagers, you know how important hearing that is. Even though I know he loves me, it's still good to hear it.

-My S15 actually told me last week that I seem happier without my H. I told him that I wasn't happier, I was just being thankful for what I do have instead of moping about what I don't

-my cat, who worshiped the ground my H walked on and ignored me any time he was around, follows me everywhere and always wants to cuddle with me. Since she & I are the only females in the house, we have to stick together

- I can watch as many chick flicks as I want without having anyone complain that I've seen the same movie 1000 times.

-when my kids are with their Dad for the week, my house is clean for an entire week! That is a rare thing these days

-I can listen to whatever radio station or cd I want when I'm driving

I'm sure I can think of more....but that's enough for now.


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