Rollercoaster of love

[LearningPatience]

Denver, thanks for the reply. The things that made me sure that it's over:
1) a list on our counter of the things we bought together, made by W
2) spoke with SIL today. W is visiting D in CO (Grand Junction) and is driving back with OM to MI. SD is upset with that and that was the final straw. Pretty much everyone that knows W thinks the sitch is F'ed up. She can deal with that on her own.

I'm just numb right now. Supposed to meat friends for late dinner. MIL asked if I wanted to come over. I think I will for a minute and give her a huge hug. She's like a mom to me.

Thanks everyone for your support and well wishes. We'll see what the future brings...