DG, I think you are on the right track. It's a very real possiblity he will back on your M will be stronger than it ever has been. I know you do not want him to come back too early. If he does come back too early, there's the risk if things tanked again he would never come back again. If he hadn't left, you wouldn't have had the opportunity to work on yourself like you've - you wouldn't have been as motivated as you are now. You may have lived your lives in mediocrity. Just keep the positive changes going. You're doing a great job!
