Yeah I have tried that with mixed success. It always amazes me how my W can find new things I neglected to do or lost.
THE ISSUE, NOT YOU HAVING FLAWS B/C YOU ARE A MEMBER OF THE HUMAN RACE; IT'S HOW SHE TREATS YOU FOR HAVING THE FLAWS...
God, are we going to pretend she's being reasonable? She's not your mother. If the money is that tight, tell her to get a job.
That is all I have. Sorry - but you're losing sight of the core problem here, and it's NOT you.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016