I don't mind doing the cleanup if she uses the time to interact with the kids or go work out etc. Doing nothing by sitting on the couch all night and drink doesn't resonate with me.
I wouldn't say that I am doing this just so that I can rub it in her face. I do it because I want the house to be clean and tidy for our kids.
I'm going to call BS on this. There is no doubt that give you a sense of superiority over your wife. You post reeks of it.
