Good and bad day. I found out a friend (one of the girls I talked about in earlier threads who H and I took under our wings when she was younger and her dad was cheating on her mom, but would come back and then do it again, etc), she and her soon to be husband got an apartment that happens to be 3 doors from H and OW. I feel so bad for her. She looked up to H and really relied on him, but now...she has to see him doing what her dad did.
It also hurt me a lot because it made everything more real. I know in my head that H has been cheating on me with OW for years, but I never had proof because no one ever saw them doing anything more than being somewhere at the same time. She saw them kissing so it just hurts all over again.
The good is that I got an unexpected stipend from work. Since they can't give us raises, they did give us a one time "bonus" so that was a nice surprise and extra.
Still nothing from L so that has me down a little because I really am tired of waiting.
Me29 S3 H left 4/1/09 I file 8/2/10 Divorce final 5/17/11 1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52 2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg 3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89
