Her sister had talked to me earlier in the day and said W called her last night. Said that W knew she lost D11 and even took the blame for it. She didn’t know what to do but said that she couldn’t get rid of the OM. Her sister told her she HAD to get rid of him for the sake of the girls but W wouldn’t listen.
SO, when I talked to W, I explained why D9 should be with me. I told her what her sister said (because W told her sister to call me) and W flipped out. She started screaming at me so I hung up.
She then screamed at her sister and said she never wants to talk to her again.
She felt comfortable enough to be open with her sister, now that's gone.
Bolt, I'm sort of scratching my head as to why "what her sister said" really needed to be repeated? You know what you know, and that should've been enough.
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Then she called me back, crying. Asking why I thought so little of her. I explained to her that I didn’t think little of her…I thought ZERO of her. I only thought of the kids. She should do the same. I said this very loudly and sternly. She ordered me to not yell at her and to call her when I was calmed down. She then hung up.
Still scratching my head.... this shouldn't have even happened. Why say this to her? The "zero" thing... what was the intent?
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POWER PLAY…didn’t work. I texted her and said I am no longer helping her. I said that this was her mess and she had to clean it up. I tried to help but I’m done.
Power play? I'm not really seeing a power play. I see a helluva lot of guilt driven anger from where I'm sittin.
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…the drama continues…
IMO, much of the drama this time was fueled by you.
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Hope that all made sense… I’m a little shaky right now.
Yes and no....
Look, I'm all for taking a strong stance regarding the children. I totally understand and agree with that.
I don't understand your interactions with her at this time. You're letting your emotions run the show, mainly your hurt. I think you can do better.
