Detach Dog

[ninelives]

Thanks for the Input Gr8.. I do try and follow 25's advice best I can. Had some backslides but she has helped so much as have all people on this board.

I would not play with somebody's heart. We have talked about keeping this light and one night stands are not in my vocabulary.

I did have a brief fling recently and it was a disaster, especially after the sex. This girl was local but this date is with a girl 5 hours away. Im pretty sure nothing will come of it , I have been very open with everything and I will continue to do so. I was actually shocked she gave me her phone number to tell you the truth.

I dont even want my wife to know about this really. Its not a ploy to get her back. I told her about the one girl I dated back in last May, but I didnt tell her who the girl was although she wanted to know.

Actually, it seems that my wife has moved on with her life and is heavily into a relationship now. I wouldnt even call it an affair or the OM. She doesnt appear to be too interested in what I am doing anymore so I think she is trying to live her life in the next chapter. This makes it a little easier for me to GAL.

Still have some bad days over it but hopefully the vallies will be further apart as we go down the road. Im just looking forward to being on the road, getting off the "rock" as we call it and yes, meeting a pretty girl.

There will be no sex, and if there is , it would be the best 20 seconds of her life, ( its been awhile) Just kidding.

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