How to make progress???

[luvmyhubby]

I am working with my H to repair our once happy marriage. Im reading DB and am ready to set goals. He spends all of his time on his buisiness and never sets aside time for me, kids or our home. I expressed all of these feelings to him yesterday and requested that he come home with a few small goals to help us. We are both seeing a counselor on our own and one together. He came home and we sat down and he had nothing he was too busy and couldnt think of any goals.. I just wanted to cry.. He says he wants our family but isnt putting in the effort.. do I push or lay off?

Thanks for any feedback!