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I am not judging your choice to "date" or whatever. But it does seem needy. Then again, Your timeline is confusing to me b/c your reply was confusing when I asked you when everything started and why DBing seemed "new" to you. You kind of jumped around with dates and your signature block has different ones and all that.

Regardless- you have to be honest with other people (OWs) or you're just using them and that's not cool. But if the OW knows the deal, and IF YOU can handle things not working out...or working out, for that matter, then what's the harm?

Be careful with her heart, and yours...and your boys'-NO introductions please. They'll reel from a new woman in your life...


Nine,
I agree with 25,
If your not completely ready to move on without your W then dating should be off limits.

I will tell you though, once I started to date OW, my W did realize I was moving on without her. I truely was too.
It did make her reevulate her decision to D.

Humans crave what they cant have. They also hold value to things and people when other people give them value.

Becareful with other peoples heart. Be honest and up front.
We know the pain of being dumped, don't go into a R if your intentions are just to have a good time ~ sex.


Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12
Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life!
“Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."