Ugh. I spent an hour last night getting tax, salary and bonus information for my wife to take to a lawyer. She is focused on getting a divorce.

That was the worst feeling of having to face the reality of my wife filing for divorce and needing to get her information at the same time.

That was hard but it seemed like a better solution than telling her to wait until she gets it from a lawyer that I haven't hired yet.

The only bright side was I got to show my wife my rational, helpful and confident side.

This is so hard.

Married 15 years
3 children 13, 12, 10
1st D bomb Jan 09
2nd D bomb Feb 11
I moved out June 11