W may be full of guilt, but that doesn't mean she wants to fix any of this. There's a big difference between being sorry and actually doing something about it.
Bingo. In the 3 months since our D-Day I've heard "I'm sorry" a lot, but she still continues to sink our marriage piece by piece. My non-DB self wants to say, "You're sorry? No; sorry means you have remorse and regret for what you have done and you will stop what you're doing." But I just nod my head and say, "I know."
H 56 W 48 D27,S21 SS25 SS22 Severely autistic M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs. "I've never loved you" 3/7/2011 Separated 8/7/2011 BITS