I'm lost. need help with WAW

[GAL Man]

I have been using the LRT for a couple of weeks now, 1 week whilst W was at home, and this week since W has left. In hindsight I wish I had received db/dr sooner to put the LRT into practice and do some 180's. Looking back now there were signs from W once I had started this, i.e. asking where I had been, who I was with, why was I so happy etc, but never took much notice. I thought it was just her trying to be friendly and amicable, and didn't think there was much I could do anyhow this late as she was renting from Friday. Again looking at the signs and how she was I think it impacted on my W quite a lot, especially accusing me of meeting up with someone else!

I visited one of our friends on Tue evening (W's friend and husband really) and they didn't know half of the story (supporting my thinking that she was portraying things to friends but showing something different). They said that when there saw her on Sunday (1 day after moving into her rental) and she looked like death warmed up, W told them it was down to the move (but she didn't move anything) but friends knew better, this also supports what I saw last week in her. Friends couldn't believe how happy and positive I seemed, as well as looking really good and stated that it was clear I knew what I wanted, what had gone wrong and realised quite a lot, but stated they feel that W was somewhere completely different. Part of the conversation was acting well, but a lot of it was actually how I fell and some realisations I had made. Friends told me that W had said she thought I was meeting up with an old friend who had been commenting on my fb posts which I mentioned in a previous post (I haven't though) which I felt was a strange thing to tell them. She didn't tell them she had gone out for drinks with someone though, which they couldn't believe and immediately said that the way she was acting indicated a MLC.

She text me twice on Sat on her second day of moving asking what time I would be back, but I didn't respond to either text, as I though they were just fishing. I dropped the rope last Wednesday night and have not spoken to her since, and she has not contacted me either (Except the 2 text on Sat), but she is a stubborn so and so, so I expected this. I am trying to give her space and time to realise things and for me too, but it is very hard indeed..

I am thinking of giving it another week without contact then contacting her next Friday just to say the following, "hi, I only have a couple of minutes as I am going into a meeting, but there is a festival in August at x, I knew its something that would interest you, anyway got to go, hope all is well, bye! So I am not engaging in any sort of conversation, and says quite a lot if you read into it. What are people thoughts on this, or should I go dark for longer.

As previously mentioned she was a fb addict, but since last Friday NOTHING, she has not posted a single thing. Whilst W doesn't have internet she can go onto fb on her phone, and used to do. I have seen her pop up on fb a few times every day this week, which I think is to see what I am up to. W has deleted all of my friends who she was also friends with be left me on there! I have posted new pictures of me (looking good) and posting funny comments and posts, and posted comments to indicate I am getting on with my life with signing into places to show I am going out etc.

I do not know what else I can do now, do I go dark for longer or initiate contact as above? I have to drop the kids off at her rental on Sat evening, but I am not planning to see her, just drop the kids off, make sure they are OK then leave without the W seeing me.

W must be finding me going dark as strange, as I am a "fixer" and it is usually me who does the chasing, mending, fixing etc.