Scylia your right I have to take care of me and abopt the opinion ill be fine with or without her. Just kinda difficult cause her friends keep contacting me saying that she does love me and that she has talked about coming back but then another one of her friends will contact me saying that she is 100 percent done and that she just dosnt wanna be married then she will ask my buddies where I am and who I with after saying yall need to find him a woman. Who knows