Can I close the door and leave it unlocked?

[ninelives]

You know yourself better than we know you Islander. Maybe you have reached your breaking point, I dont think you have , but I am wrong so often that it doesnt matter.

I do know this of you , you are a decent man that will be fine someday with or without your wife. If she comes back, she will be very lucky to have the finished Islander as her mate with the practice model gone.

If she doesnt, she will be the one that isnt fullfilled by the understanding of the new man. YOu dont have to worry about her either because the new islander will be on his way to happiness.

This I KNOW to be true.

I echo some of the above thoughts, take a breather and then make your final decision.

Either way, I got your back buddy.

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