When life hands you lemons add alcohol and stir!

[mishka422]

Ok. Did it.

We had about 30 minutes alone together this evening between running around and stuff I finally told him I needed to talk to him for a few minutes about last Friday.

I told him that I didn't really have the opportunity to answer him when he asked me if I was mad about him going out and possibly staying out all night. I told him I wasn't exactly mad so much as that brought up all of my own insecurity, fears, and demons. He immediately said, "I thought so. I could tell you were very uncomfortable and I was pretty sure I knew why." I told him that all in all I would prefer brutal honesty over having to constantly wonder what is going on. I also talked to him about the way he gives me answers when I ask a question because it bothers me terribly. He has always been very evasive in answering most questions even if they are totally innocuous. Example....last night he was sitting in the bedroom filling out a job application. I asked him what it was for and he just said, "A job." Umm...yeah. I get that. Where? "A place." Oh goody...we're going to play 20 questions. UGH. That is how it is. It's like pulling teeth. I told him it upsets me and I would just like a quick, to the point straight answer. He told me he hadn't really thought about it and just thought he was being amusing.

That is talked out. I will need to move forward to a real R talk at some point in the near future but it will wait.