I might also add...your goal is not so much to be understood as to understand your spouse.

Fact is you see life and reality through your colored and dirty, smudged lenses, and she sees life and reality through her differently colored, dirty and smudged lenses.

You're looking at the same thing in daylight but your brains are coming up with different PERSPECTIVES.


I wish you peace, calm and hope in the coming days.

BITS
Me-51, WAS-52
Kids 2
M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013
Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice.
Love is a action and choice you make, every day.