No, you didn't want the divorce but you do want this done so that you can get on with your life and your healing. It's not a matter of she wins and you lose, it's a matter of getting done what needs to be done. You don't have to like it but if it has to be done then do it and get it over with. Btw, you have no idea what she is going through just because she doesn't share it or show it to you. As you said on my thread, you never know what's going on in another persons head. Don't presume that you do. Her pain is her pain and yours is yours. If she can't or won't go to court then you go and get 'er done.
