KD,

Re read the little note wherein I said "lose the scorecard...and the anger"..b/c it consumes YOU and does not help anyone, least of all you or your kids...

The very next post of yours is filled with your judgement, (which you admit, a bit too self righteously) and your anger "at the frustration" you feel, as if that's a unique form of anger...And then you put in your denials of anger and how you really don't care...oh, okay...ALL the details of how YOU don't have double standards and blah blah blah DEFENSIVENESS GALORE...btw, you said you have the kids on task during your time with them so you can get other things done but that's somehow WAY different than your w parking them somewhere so SHE can get things done...whatever KD...and please don't outline her character flaws on your grievance list, and then portray yourself as a hapless victim of her outrageous behaviors... I don't know what you were like when m, but you are no picnic for your w now. It must take so much discipline for her to deal with you when you are clearly very angry and at times not capable of objectivity. HER letter was calm. Your post here, even after being told to lose the anger, is plenty long and plenty angry.

geez, dig a little deeper. Be a bit more self aware. I'm sorry KD, but I mean, how's this approach working for you?


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change