wow...getting control both makes me feel better and a little sad.
I called W only because we had an insurance claim. I wasn't sure if it was her accident or mine. We had a civil conversation about it.
Then she asked about me drawing up the custody papers. I told her I didn’t have time. She wanted me to do this before her meeting with her attorney tomorrow. I am not going to help her out in anyway. I told her I didn’t have the time yet and she got upset. So I did say, I want D9 as well as D11 . I have full custody and she can visit. She asked why and I said that she is too unstable right now.
Her sister had talked to me earlier in the day and said W called her last night. Said that W knew she lost D11 and even took the blame for it. She didn’t know what to do but said that she couldn’t get rid of the OM. Her sister told her she HAD to get rid of him for the sake of the girls but W wouldn’t listen.
SO, when I talked to W, I explained why D9 should be with me. I told her what her sister said (because W told her sister to call me) and W flipped out. She started screaming at me so I hung up.
She then screamed at her sister and said she never wants to talk to her again.
Then she called me back, crying. Asking why I thought so little of her. I explained to her that I didn’t think little of her…I thought ZERO of her. I only thought of the kids. She should do the same. I said this very loudly and sternly. She ordered me to not yell at her and to call her when I was calmed down. She then hung up.
POWER PLAY…didn’t work. I texted her and said I am no longer helping her. I said that this was her mess and she had to clean it up. I tried to help but I’m done.
She then called me back and said that I can have the f’ing girls. To come get D9 tomorrow. She told me to call my attorney so I could get custody.
…the drama continues… Hope that all made sense… I’m a little shaky right now.
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE