The only reason to help her 'fast track' is to avoid invalidating her decision. She feels good she has made this decision (D and move) and anything I do that hinders that decision will be seen as me controlling.

Saw a L last year. Will see him again in June.

H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012