Maybe good news, she was away and realized what she would be leaving behind. However, you have to be prepared for the talk to be about her leaving also. Be ready so that you show no anger and act 'as if' even though it would kill you inside. No pleading, no begging, etc.
I don't think going out with a co-worker helps your situation either. Its too soon even though you want to have that caring feeling from someone again. You may regret pursuing it any further until this sitch is figured out.
H:41 W:44 D1:19 D2:17 S:13 D3:7 T:20 M:18 Bomb:1/5/11 Sep:2/18/11 No D filed yet; just threats
