Positively moving forward

[ClingingToHope]

I'll give you the flipside argument -- even if he caused the D -- finality still hurts.

In my case, I wanted my wedding rings back because they were my grandmother's. STBXW left them on a table for me. So I got what I wanted -- and it still hurt.

So I can see why your STBXH didn't want to be there. He shouldn't have yelled and screamed, but I wouldn't have wanted to be there either.

When I got my stuff, it was while STBXW was at work and I did my own moving.