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I don't think I'd mention anything to her about it.

I definitely have no plans on mentioning it to her. Are you referring to my statement about her being notified? I was talking about how a copy of my response must also be sent to her. Nothing I can do about it.

I mean she has to have put this div on the back burner so to speak. Why would you want to change that?

This is exactly what I was thinking when deciding to file the response at all. Like you said, I did it to protect myself, but at the same time, it means she will get a copy of my response and be reminded that this is going on. That was my dilemma.

So, how about continuing to allow her to steer things for now, backing off otherwise? If I had to choose a side of the fence, I'd choose the backing off over the pressuring.

I agree, and this is where I am ending up.

The pics and sending them, doesn't seem too pursuing if you are not also sending notes. But I'd limit it to a small number. Unless the pic is REALLY cute or unusual, like she's blowing flower petals, etc. then limit them. I mean, She has a camera too.

Thanks for the thoughts here. I do battle with this, where the line should be drawn. The whole pic thing goes back to before any of this ever happened. I would always send pics of D when she was working, and she always appreciated it.

I know she still enjoys receiving them, I don't think she see's it as pursing at all, because if I don't she usually asks for them. She also often does the same thing when she has D.

I think I'll work back to waiting for her to ask, maybe throwing the unsolicited ones here and there when they are particularly good ones.