P.S. to my recent post about MLC...I had mentioned in an earlier post that W is going to our mutual friends' home tomorrow (Friday) night and plans to spend the night. I thought spending the night there was a bit odd until W told me she plans to do, in her words, "an exceptional amount of drinking". Which would not sound too unusual except for the fact that my W seldom drinks; in fact, my drinking was one of the reasons she gave me for the breakdown in our M. She never accepted my invitations to go out to clubs, and even at home maintained a strict 1 glass of wine regimen.
In hindsight, I'm sure she declined my invitations because of her fear that I would turn into a nasty drunk, which happened several times in the early years of our M. But to hear her tell me she is going to do exactly what she criticized me for doing is somewhat unsettling (but not enough for me to get all bent out of shape). At least she is smart enough to spend the night there rather than try to drive home. I commend her for that. But it's almost like she is doing her own 180 to her typical behaviors.
Don't know what to expect on Saturday morning; never had to deal with a hungover W before.
H 56 W 48 D27,S21 SS25 SS22 Severely autistic M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs. "I've never loved you" 3/7/2011 Separated 8/7/2011 BITS
