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So, how about continuing to allow her to steer things for now, backing off otherwise? If I had to choose a side of the fence, I'd choose the backing off over the pressuring
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I agree with you 25.
I wouldn't pursue at all. However folks here do get impatient and feel they NEED to do something.

I remember when I started to piece I was thinking about buying flowers for the W. Most if not all the people here said not to.
I did it and it did pay off for me. She did text me and said thanks, It's exactly what she needed.

CS,
It took over a year for my W to reconsider her decision about leaving.

Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12
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“Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."