Originally Posted By: Kaffe Diem
ouch. That's harsh medicine, 25.

That's what I'm looking for. If I am hurting the kids rather than helping them by being around them, then...

I do have a lot to think about...


you are NOT hurting them by being around them and I said no such thing. I said you might be exposing them too much or burdening d8 too much with your pain. That's not the same thing. And the wording of d13 about being abandoned byy you or thinking you implied that, is telling. Granted, I have a d13 and they can be overly dramatic BUT that is often actually how they feel-the DRAMA of it all, ya know? But imo, you can't just "text" her your reassurance. Are you waiting to be in person? Don't. Call her up and tell her you WILL BE THERE FOR HER and that you are Not abandoning her, and don't wait til you see her for that...come on. You can be around them and NOT hurt them. I mean, are you suggesting otherwise? Your w didn't.


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

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