Okay.... I'll give it a try. I'm not sure what motivated the turn around.. the giving me her phone number, the invitation to dinner, AND the End of the World party. I do know that she's going on vacation starting the 26th or 27th, to visit her mom in Virginia. This was a trip WE were supposed to take, but she made it for her and came up with a bunch of excuses, and then I found out she'd been making a certain contact on Facebook that looks suspicious. And at one point she got so mad at me that she extended her trip. Now this trip is partly supposed to be for her to get headspace to think through things, but she'll be surrounded by friends and a one-sided story and her mother, who would throw me under a train. When she returns on June 5th, we have a couples counseling session on June 6th... and it was at that session that we were going to try to decide are we moving forward with marriage counseling or are we going into a divorce. I'm all for.... not making any decision at all, as it is all too soon. But.. I can't speak for her! I so want to at least try to DB techniques together so we can say we tried everything we could. But she's just not there.. she's at "done right now." I don't know what it can take to turn that around.
So yes, dinner tonight.. short and sweet.. just food. And then Saturday's more light hearted End of the World party. No R talk. Period.
