CS,
I have caught up with your sitch except the the past few posts.

You say you want to reach out to W and invite her to do something as a family?

From your tagline your D is going to be 2 soon, correct?

My idea, if you want to invite the W to do something is for you to make plans to get your D2 pisture taken at a studio.
Invite your W. If she excepts, great, if she doesn't, no big deal. You still go and get the pics.

Just an idea.

hope all is well.

gr8

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