No.

You know what? That's Bull! I AM a good dad. I've done some things that were wrong and wish I hadn't. I've made amends to the kids. I am a good dad and I do everything that I can to ensure that my issues that I had with my W did not interfere with how I interact with them.

All this one sided carp is making me... I don't have a word for it right now.

My W is staying out all night, leaving my D13 at home alone, or with a 13 year old friend.

My W is taking my kids to her friends, where OM hangs with her, and I know these parties, I've seen pictures of W and OM completely drunk, laying all over each other on an outdoor rocker. And comments on the pictures laughing about how much they had consumed by this time.

My W is going out to parties and then bringing her drunk friends home because "they are too drunk to drive" (while the kids are at home, no less) and it includes OM, and then staying up till four and five in the morning, continuing to drink.

My D8 tells me how OM and some new guy that could also be a potential A are rubbing her back to put her to sleep while she is at these parties at "the usual place."

And I'M THE ONE THAT'S MESSING MY KIDS UP???!! Peeing the bed at 8 and smoking pot at 12?

I DON'T THINK SO!

I am a good dad. I take care of them. I spend time with them. I have done everything I can to keep my mouth in check when I'm down or having a bad day. And sometimes I make mistakes or am not clear on what I'm trying to say...

I'm working on that. In the mean time. Kids deserve to be with BOTH PARENTS.

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I'm sorry. I had to vent. But I am not the only responsible party here.