I think you should neither EN-courage them nor DIS-courage them from speaking to their mother about what is on their hearts.

All three of them are adults, and can handle it. There's no need to shelter your wife from the consequences of her infidelity.


Starsky

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)