My bad, I just read the link in newcomers and didn't realize that you are a newbie even though your registration date is 10 years old.
I can post all the links on your thread if you need them.
It looks like Grit encouraged you to post here.
MLC board is more about working on YOU. If your wife is bipolar and not getting any help for it there is not going to be much you can do to FIX that problem.
It sounds like by her age she is starting to go through periomenopause and that is going to MAGNIFY her disease, or any other problems that she has had in her life.
You will and have been tested to the limit.
My advice that I have given you still stands, you can try to learn what is happening.
