back again

[any chance?]

Ok. Things are moving a lightening speed relative to the same time, same place last year.

I think I need to sign the D papers, allow the process to start. Not signing them is only going to build resentment, and I cannot force her to go to counciling or force her to reevaluate our R or her decision. I think I need to let her stay in the house until she is ready to move out of town after the D. The knowledge that she is getting out of the marriage and moving out of town will probably help her depression. Maybe during that time she will recognize who I am and who I have become. Maybe during that time, she will see what she stands to lose. Maybe she won't go through with it.

So I will be the nice guy.

Maybe I am just a fool.