Positively moving forward

[awest1217]

Last night was LONG!

First off, my students are all going crazy. I don't know if it is because of the cooler, wetter weather in this area so they haven't been able to get out much like normal, but all the students are more crazy than normal.

Last night I get home from work with S about 10 minutes early because I knew the movers were coming. The movers were already there. They came to the door and were really nice. They talked to S and played with him for a minute as they asked where the piano was. I showed them and showed them the boxes. They said they were never told about boxes, but would take them (one crisis averted).

Then the main guy comes in and starts telling me about the price and asks me to sign a paper. I said I was not the one to set this up so I can't sign and I am not the one paying for this. He says he can't move anything without a signature so I call H and tell him. He starts to get mad and yells at me that the lady told him that he didn't have to be there (I would want to be there if it were me because I would want to make sure everything was ok...but that is me). I give the phone to the head mover who is being very polite and trying to calm H down and explain he is just following the protocol.

He tells H he will call his supervisor and get the ok to move everything without a signature because I was NOT going to sign, but I explained that to the movers nicely and they understood. I then keep talking to H to figure out what to do and he says "I did this because I can't be there" and continues to yell at me. I tell him that I have nothing to do with this and he needs to stop. I stay on the phone just so I can tell him if the movers can move the stuff or not and he keeps yelling at me about how they better not charge him for these 5 minutes and blah blah blah. The mover gets the ok and talks to H who keeps him of the phone another 4 minutes yelling about payment.

Finally the guys can start working and within 15 minutes everything was out. They were so nice and I were nice to them.

Then I set out to reorganize where the stuff was taken, which didn't take too long, but was still labor intensive. I was done by 6 and then dinner and baths and to bed.

After H yelled at me, he text me three times last night to say I am really sorry. I shouldn't have yelled at you. I am so sorry. Blah blah blah. I haven't responded because at this point I don't have to say "oh it is ok, don't worry about it." because it is not ok and he should worry about it. He canNOT treat me the way he did when we were married. As soon as the movers started moving (10 minutes total) I was off the phone with H, didn't say bye or anything and I went on my way. I will not let him think he can treat me this way ever again.

Nice thing is that now everything is out of the house so S has a ton of space to play. I still know nothing about the D. The L said it could take a couple of days so I am hoping to hear today or tomorrow. I think this is why this week is taking so long for me. I just want to know if the judge signed without a hearing or not. I am praying it is without a hearing.