There is no doubt she is feeling 'done' right now. She has a plan in her mind, which involves a D and moving across the country. I have asked her to give me another 6 months, especially as I just returned from a 3.5 month trip. I told her that we would both need to be willing to give 100%. I don't think she is going to be willing to do that.

So do I just sign the papers, and let the D go through? Is this how I am supposed to give her room?

Do I have her move out of the house once I sign the papers? Cut all ties? She said yesterday that she did not want to do that, but I don't know what else to do.

I am a wreck here.

H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012