Hi Liz,

Im sorry that you have found yourself here.

That is great you have read the DB! Re-read again and follow the GAL steps. Also have you read sex-starved M book? This may help more in your sitch.

I'm no expert in the field. But keep writing your thoughts in your post and people will come around and give you advice.

There is a great lot of people on here, keep reading up on everyone's sitch as sometimes you can learn some valuable things based on other peoples R.

We are all here for the same reason.

Me: 28 H:30
M:19/03/09
Renewed vows in home country: 19/03/10
Together: 7 1/2 years
Married : 2yr 3 months
S:26/06/10
reconciliation started: 1/10/10
Separation 2: 4/5/2011