Well yesterday I had a few baby steps but he is still very upset. H talks to me with anger in his voice most of the time. I have notice a couple other steps also. H went to the store for me on Sunday not sure if this is due to the surgery on this coming Monday or not.
H also told me last night you are not the maid here. I did not say anything just that please just let me do this while I can because next week is going to be hard for me to do things. I also told H last night that once I am better that he will need to make dinners on Thur. nights. H says to me why do I need to know something? I tell him know he then says to me well what will you be doing. So I told him I will be taking a Country Line dancing class. I also asked him about how do you get motorcycle temps as he got them a few years ago. H tells me how and then asks why again. I told him I was going to get them and then take a class. He says again good for you I know that you have wanted that for a long time. Hold off for the 25.00 class that they offer in stead of the one that is 400.00. I said nothing.
Yesterday was the first day that I did not contact him at all during the day, he also did not contact me. He knew before he left for work that I was in a lot of pain and it hurt me a lot that he did not contact me. When he got home he ask's how are you doing with the pain told him it hurt alot still. I did say that I should not have you are asking now but never called to check on me during the day.
Taking everything one day at a time. I know right now he is helping me more but not sure if it is because of surgery. I started dinner and he told me he would finish it if I told him how. I told him to look on the box because I was not sure what was next. He also spent more time with me and my daughter in the living room instead of going in the family room. That was one of my goals so I hit that.
