seeking,W childhood was a clusterF. father was mentally ill and died at 47 in 1995 when I met her. raised by paternal grand parents who took custody of her when she was 1 yr old. Biological mother was a prostitute. She was despised by youngest aunt for being the new baby in the house. Oldest aunt was not around but youngest uncle was there for her. Grandfather parapalegic in a chair till he died in 2001. Oldest aunt divorced had she had sex with aunts husband before they were divorced. we married in 95 and in 2002 she separated from me while I was in south deckota doing geological field work was homeless for a time and got back together 7 months later.

Now wife is prowling bars "fishing" almost every night. is perrimenopausal and has a thyroid problem. Just last night after one of her excusions she leveled me with the news she got an apartment across tomn and is moving there in 2 weeks..

W kids I am extremely devestated and cannot function.
Dont know how to float the rent we are in now w what I make,very stressed out.

last night did say that she loved me but had harboured resentment from the beginning and thinks that she will soon date but is soured to another man living with her. My kids are devestated. She rented an apartment before she landed a job. Just graduated with a MSW from UMAINE Orono. But took on two more summer courses to get the money to get away.

Told me she will help me anyway she can to float the house I refuse to leave. But is moving without a job just using my S14 as he gets SSI. Total impulse move. Says she hates living in purgatory. I thought like An idiot that I had time (this summer) to DB my ass off but this is not the case.

She still hasn't filed yet.After a substantial amount of money from student loans received.But is willing to fix my postal vehicle and pay rent here for 2 months. Middle daughter seems to think she is leaving the door open a crack.Yet when she told kids today her plans they were distraught. Didnt seem to phase her at all. I need input please!

M48
W 43
S14
S11
DD3
Bomb 3/23/11
No papers filed yet