So we went and purchased a new TV the other day. We narrowed it down to 2 different models. My oldest son and I wanted one brand and my wife wanted another brand. Our choice was based on the quality of the picture. My wifes choice was based on the shape and style of the frame. The old version of me would have pushed for my choice. We are now sitting at home watching the new TV with the nice frame! Oh well, it felt good to let her make the choice and made me realize how controlling I was in the past whenever we were buying things. Like I mentioned previously, every day provides opportunities for me to show that I am no longer that controlling person that she grew to dislike so much. I need to make sure that I take full advantage of these situations.
She was pretty upbeat last night after buying the TV, but today was very reserved in her interactions with me. Seems to be that pullback reaction that I have seen on so many other threads. Just when you think you are making a small step forward, they pullback from you and you feel that you are further away from where you were just a few days ago. Its almost like she would have been happier if I forced my decision on her and then she could complain to her friend about how controlling I am.
These are all small steps, some just happen to be going in the wrong direction.
