Good place to get to, Islander. While this is a place to bust D, it is also a place to heal and grow.
I must say I still do not appreciate "what will happen, will happen when it does" or however that can be phrased. I still fully believe that what happens, happens because we choose to make it happen and work towards it. If one is not working towards "it", then one is simply moving forward.
Love IS a choice. M is a choice. D is a choice. I choose love, and it will not be with my W unless we both choose to work on it. Because while it begins and takes only one... the results from one effort in my sitch have been negative.
