Actually, weekends is a brand new arrangement due to my moving further away. Up until now, I would see them on some weekends, never on week days, unless I was picking them up from school or taking them to school (one of the original agreements for visits). It all depended on what W arranged. I would get the girls for a friday overnight or a saturday overnight or have one girl on one day a weekend and then the other girl on the next weekend for one day...
It was only about two months ago when I started having the girls Saturday afternoon until monday morning. And that was ONLY D8 and that happened I think twice.
So that 28% was hard won in the first place from something that was more like 10% or 15%. I am sure that most visits are documented somewhere in my journaling.
The weekends only was only a suggestion. It never happened. This weekend was the only weekend the girls were here with me and they were not here on Friday. I picked them up Saturday afternoon. "Weekends with flexibility" was the plan, considering that summer holidays are coming up and I might have them for a week at a time. But again, nothing has been established.
