She wrote a great email. I did NOT know she never got them on weekends...Forget the % for now. I mean, if she said you could have them every single NIGHT from midnight to 8 am would you really count that as an increase in %? No, you'd say that doesn't really count since it's sleep time. So, imo, she has a completely legit point, and she made it in a very reasonable manner.

I think it's a great chance for you two to work together on something.
Please realize that she has a point, and it's best for the kids to have some down time with mom (and the fact that it also benefits her, should be seen as a win win, not a disadvantage KD).

This is an opportunity for something positive to happen KD. Negotiate. Figure out if you can see them on some weekday night, like every Wednesday night for dinner, or spending the night. Not so much "tit for tat" but a way to break up the 5 day periods of time you have between visits, plus you benefit by having some free time to yourself on the weekends too.


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change